Why is Elixir different?

Kimmi's Parties has been knowns as Adelaide Premier Adult Play party for the past ten years, and as a host, we're forever reflecting on how we can make the experience safe, more profound and creative in ways for people to explore their sexuality. 

As a host, and as I grow and change I feel like my events must grow with me so I can stay true to my vision and my events stay in integrity and align with my values and my intention as facilitation skills expand so that I can create a space for you too to also expand, as my guest, ' Elixir' was created.

  • The setting will be more like a gathering than a party;
  • The atmosphere will be more erotic than sexual;
  • The focus will be more on sexual empowerment than entertainment;
  • The event is about building community than being a guest;
  • The intention will be more about witnessing than watching;
  • The culture will be about what you can give than what you can get;
  • The environment will be more community than a club;
  • The touch will be more like passion/reality than porn/fantasy;
  • The play spaces will be about honour than an entitlement;
  • The area will provide more compassion than comparison;
  • The hot connection is more about boundaries than being easy-going;

This gathering will have some different house rules to ensure that not only is the party HOT it will also be fun, intriguing and held in a safe space to ask for what you want! 

  • Doors open at 7 pm and close at midnight;
  • Women are to approach and ask for what they want until 10 pm;
  • After 10 pm we invite you to show more skin and all are invited to ask for what they want;
  • The questions will be 'May I' or 'Will you' the tools to ask for what you want - it is for you;
  • Sexy little games may be played to break the ice;

Is Elixir for you? 

You are entirely in control of how deep you go. Everyone in the space will be able to navigate pleasure in a way that all who choose to play will all be able to speak with clarity and with conviction. The safety is created by attending ‘The Gateway to Elixir’ foundation workshop.

With the focus being on erotic Elixir is suitable for those who: 

  • You may be feeling soft and vulnerable, and your body craves for connection and non-sexual but loving touch – Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may desire to witness, observe and appreciate the intense erotic energy that surrounds you, without participating – Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may desire to be seen and witnessed by onlookers in your uninhibited expression of pleasure – Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may enjoy your naked or semi-naked body in movement or dance – Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may enjoy the thrill of approaching or being approached to give or receive pleasure with integrity – Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may have some fantasies that you would like to explore or bring them to life - Elixir welcomes you!
  • You value the sprinkle of erotic spice as an enhancer to add flavour to your life - Elixir welcomes you!
  • You value and appreciate the social aspect as much if not more than the sexual - Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may be looking to explore fantasy for the first time or over and over again – Elixir welcomes you!
  • You may be curious to explore the conscious aspects of sensuality, eroticism and sacred sexuality - Elixir welcomes you!
  • May not identify as a man or a woman, you may be genderfluid, you maybe bi, gay, pan or anything in-between. You may be yearning for space where you find full acceptance of your truth and essence. Elixir welcomes you!

This will still be a gender-balanced events and those who have attended the workshop will be included on a secret facebook group to find partners to attend with so the guest list is kept even. You do not have to play with the person you have attended with, it’s just about balance.