Swinging/Play

We tend to think that sometimes the word "swinger or swinging" can seem a bit strong, so we prefer to call it "play" for the simple fact that "swingers" has a stereotypcial stigma attached to it and there are many different forms of 'play' and sometimes swinging just doesn't seem like the correct description for the lifestyle.

To describe the play scene in a few sentences is to engaget in sexual activity with someone other than your primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person.  Playing is a process by which couples that are in a secure and loving relationship, can enhance their already strong and secure relationship.  It is not a replacement for a failing one.

Contrary to popular misconception, the 'swinging' lifestyle isn't about having sex with anyone, anywhere, anytime.

Choosing to explore this lifestyle can be very nerve-racking and extremely exciting all at the same time.  Please feel free to contact Kimmi personally if you have any questions because your primary relationship should be the most important factor when you are considering entering this lifestyle.

Swinging or play is a form of "recreational sex" between consenting adults.

We recommend that couples who attend understand why each partner is there and what their fantasies are!  It is extremely important that you have your guidelines and rules as a couple set well BEFORE you arrive.

Good communication is crucial in the "swinging/play lifestyle".  The key is to stay true to your primary relationship and treat each other with sensitivity and total respect at all times.  Never assume you know what your partner is thinking.

Swingers/play parties should be treated as a "social event", and the party should be approached in the same way as a social gathering which consists of meeting people, initiating conversation & enjoying yourself.  The social traits that can be expected in the "play community" are respect, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, stability and non-jealousy.

Please come and enjoy the wonderful opportunity to openly flirt and be flirted with in a non-threatening sexually charged atmosphere, which sometimes is fun enough for some.

I can assure you that at Kimmi's it's not just about what happens in the bedrooom.  It is much more about conversation, atmosphere, enjoyment, good laughs, good wine and a great night out.

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