Swingles

Swingles are active adults who are open to the lifestyle with a single or multiple playmates.  Being a swingle is a choice and not just because you're single.  A swingle will be actively playing with other swingles and couples.

Kimmi's is now hosting 'Adult' parties opposed to 'Couples' parties because both of the hosts are swingle we want to expand the playscene to cater for all adults needs.

All swingle males go through a very strict process to attend a party and the numbers are always kept even.  Please know that all swingles attending a Kimmi's party understand the etiquette and behaviour shown to all guests.

Swingles Criteria -
You MUST:
  • Be single
  • Be between 18 and 45
  • Be socially acceptable
  • Be of neat and tidy appearance
  • Be actively dating (couples and/or playmates)
  • Be Adelaide based
  • Submit a Swingle Male Invitation request form
  • Submit a clear and current photo - as per auto-reply
  • Attend a drinks introduction evening/interview
  • Invitation are only extended when a swingle lady confirms her attendance
  • Treat Kimmi's as a social night

The difference between a swingle and a solo-swingle - A swingle is a active single who plays with couples and other swingles (playmates) on a regular basis.  A swingle should have a playmate/s so if you're recently single....this does not make you a swingle it makes you a 'single'.  A solo-swingle is someone who receives an invitation by going through the process to attend a party solo.

Screening process - We carry out a thorough and strict screening process by requesting Swingles 'apply' for an invitation, then forward a photo, attend an intro night at which time the rules and etiquette is explained. After they successfully have met all criteria and are considered suitable, only then is an invitation offered - depending on the number of 'confirmed' swingle ladies attending. 

This has proven to be a very successful way to find suitable, respectful, genuine swingles who understands what Kimmi's is about, a place to meet other open minded people in a social but playful atmosphere.

Couples are able to invite their favourite swingle to attend party because they have already verified that the swingle is respectful, knows the rules and as the couple will take full responsibility for the swingles behaviour.

Rules for Swingles - A 'Solo Swingle' who secures a spot to attend a Kimmi's Party is NOT able to attend two calendar consecutive parties in a row as a 'solo swingle'. You have been given an opportunity to see and understand the lifestyle so it is your responsibility to go out there and find yourself a playmate to attend parties with.  This does not necessarily have to be someone you're sexually involved in, it may be a friend of the opposite sex who has the same open outlook as yourself.  Under NO circumstances are you to bring a friend who doesn't understand what the parties are about. 

Attitudes towards swingles attending parties - Couples who have a 'bad opinion' of swingles need to remember that at Kimmi's we host 'Adult Parties' and all swingles need to be treated with the same respect as couples and should not be judged based on previous bad experiences with a 'single'. Numbers are always kept even and invitations are only offered to a swingle male when a swingle lady confirms her attendance. 

Couples please take the time to read the screening process these swingles go through in order to receive an invitation in order to appreciate that they're are genuinely interested in the lifestyle.

You also need to remember that 'both' of your hosts are swingles and in our experience in the last 5 yrs - rarely do we have to chat a swingle about their behaviour and being a husband or a partner doesn't means that you're behaviour would be any different to a swingle.

The Advantages of Adult Parties V's Couples only parties!

Custom-making couples - It is very hard to find another couple that suits both partners needs, where both the male and female are physically attracted to another couple.  We're not saying it doesn't happen however with the introduction of Swingles you are often able to 'custom make' a couple, to have the experience of same room fun and partner swapping.

Swingle ladies - Having swingle males at parties will also encourage the swingle ladies to attend knowing that they have the opportunity to meet a potential regular playmate  and not just attend parties with 'all couples'.  Some swingle ladies will be looking for some one on one play with a swingle male as not all swingle ladies are bi-sexual.

Swingle ladies can come to parties have their fun without the pressure of inviting strangers into their private home.  This is a great avenue to have their sexual needs met without having to expose your private life by going down to the local pub, clubs or sporting venues and mixing their personal lives with their local area's of socializing.

2-guy 3-somes - For all you couples who are looking for that 2 guy 3some and with a few Swingle males there this will be a lot easier to achieve without feeling as though one of the partner is missing out.  Warning to all swingles, partners and husbands......a steak dinner is highly recommended with some of these ladies! wink wink *



"Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you're pretty sexy and you're taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with." - Sex and the City